Welcome to my web site

guiltlady.com has been created as a safe, secure, confidential, Christian-based website with some great stuff to read. All of us could use a little advice, now and then. Sometimes we are confused about which direction to take. For all of us, it can be especially difficult to find mature counsel because of fear. Fear of exposure, fear of embarrassment, fear of being judged as “not a good Christian” and fear of being thought of as “crazy”. This site has been developed in order to reach people who are either unable or unwilling to seek advice at their local church or through traditional counseling routes. I want visitors to guiltlady.com to think of this as sort of a Christian “Dear Abby”. You ask The Guilt Lady for personal advice via the e-mail link and she will respond by e-mail as soon as possible. She may also post your question and the answer on the “Ask the Guilt Lady” page so that others may read it and benefit. A blog of sorts has been set up for the most recent questions and answers. You will find it under the picture of my book titled “The Guilt Lady Speaks”. Right now you get there by clicking on Forgiveness, which was my first posting. The site is secure, at no time will your name be used or your contact information be shared with another party. If you do not want your question shared on the site then simply mention that in your e-mail.

Briefly, let me tell you a little about who I am and what this site is about. I have been a Christian lay-counselor for about 30 years. I am educated and am a Board Certified Biblical Counselor. I am not licensed. Counseling is my spiritual gift. I’ve written a book, “The Gift of Guilt, 10 Steps to Freedom from Guilt Forever” based of my experience in dealing with the guilt of hundreds of women over the years, the majority of whom are Christian women.

NEWS FLASH:

In response to many requests, I have published an expanded version of my book in paperback. The price is now actually less than it was previously and you may choose to purchase a download rather than the paperback if you prefer. I have published with lulu.com so you may browse their site (just put in “The Gift of Guilt” in the search box) or just click on “Buy the book” from this site. The book is also available through Amazon.com if that works better for you. The book is to the point, no psycho-babble, with true stories to illustrate some concepts.

Here are a few of the areas in which the Guilt Lady has special insight:

• All types of guilt
• Substance abuse
• Parenting
• Sexual sin
• Survivor’s guilt
• Help for Pastor’s wives and the burdens they carry

Here’s what I want you to do: I want you to visit the various pages; Ask The Guilt Lady, About The Guilt Lady, Read “The Gift of Guilt; 10 Steps to Freedom From Guilt, Forever” and Buy “The Gift of Guilt…” I make you these promises: the site is secure, The Guilt Lady will answer the questions you ask and at no time will your name be used or your information be shared with anyone. The Guilt Lady will choose some of the most interesting questions and post the questions and answers on-line, unless you ask her not to post yours. All questions will be taken seriously, all answers will be biblically based, however, The Guilt Lady does have a sense of humor and that may slip in once in awhile.

Testimonials:

• Hello again, I just wanted to let you know that your insight and advice to me worked leaps and bounds. My life is worry free and back to normal. I appreciate what you have done from the bottom of my heart, I felt hopless before and now I dont, thanks again Guilt Lady

THANKS SO MUCH FOR YOUR LETTER! You really hit the nail on the head. Fear plays a large role in my life and always has. And a need to control really makes sense with the eating issue even though I’ve never really considered that with MY eating.
It amazes me that God would touch my life through a lady on the faceless, cold internet. God’s reach and concern for me continues to boggle my mind.